Here’s an unpopular opinion that shouldn’t be unpopular: Not wanting sex is a reasonable boundary to set for literally any reason. Be it your trauma, your mental health, your sexuality, or any other factor. Your partners should respect that and they should respect you. This shouldn’t be a debate.
👏 No 👏 is 👏 a 👏 beautiful 👏 word 👏
Don’t be afraid to use it!
idk if men know this but
if you have to beg a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual. if you make a girl feel bad for not wanting to have sex with you to the point where she says yes, it’s not consensual. if you have to trick a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual.
“I still don’t belong to anyone - I am mine.”
— Morrissey, I Am Hated For Loving (via music-and-quotes)
